Imagine sitting down every day as a family to enjoy some quality family reading time together. Everyone rushes to snuggle up together and waits excitedly to start the story. Is this what happens in your home? Some days it may be. Other days it may be a bigger struggle. It definitely is in our house some days. If you long for the days of peaceful time reading to kids, but struggle to make it happen, then I am here to help. Today I’m sharing the most important tip for reading to kids.
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Loosen Up!
This may seem obvious, but with the growing push for kids to read earlier and read more, parents can often feel the strain too. We are constantly being told that kids need to be reading by a certain time, should be reading a certain number of pages or hours a day, and a certain number of books per year. It can be hard to “loosen up” and take reading lightly when there are always new benchmarks being introduced.
But guess what? Meeting all of those benchmarks won’t mean anything if we don’t make reading fun for kids.
Foster a Love of Reading
I am often asked how to get kids to read more. The answer is to make reading fun. We have to shift the focus from the amount of pages, words, books, or hours, and instead focus on fostering a love of reading. Once kids love reading, tracking the numbers will be easier and more fun, instead of a chore. Think about it in terms of your own reading. If you are reading something you enjoy, you can probably fly through it. But if it’s a textbook on something you don’t care about, each page can take forever!
There are lots of ways that you can make reading fun for kids and raise a bookworm. Reading to your kids is the first and most important step to raising a reader. From the very beginning, reading to kids helps them connect reading and books to positive feelings of love. In addition to this simple but lasting side effect, reading to your kids every day also offers you the opportunity to show them that reading can be fun, and to model the behaviors of good readers.
Have Fun with It
Don’t take your daily reading too seriously! Every read aloud doesn’t have to be a big life lesson or a lesson in reading skills. Some days my daughter and I read deep and meaningful books that help her learn coping skills or help her to deal with big emotions. Other days we happiily read the silliest books we can find and spend the day laughing at nonsense. Both types of books have a place on our bookshelf and in our daily reading. On those days when I am making silly voices and reading ridiculous books, she is reminded that reading can be a lot of fun, and those will become treasured memories to her. I still have fond memories of my parents reading silly books to me and my sister. And those nights spent reading made me the reader that I am.
Making reading fun can be easy!