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Loosen Up!

This may seem obvious, but with the growing push for kids to read earlier and read more, parents can often feel the strain too. We are constantly being told that kids need to be reading by a certain time, should be reading a certain number of pages or hours a day, and a certain number of books per year. It can be hard to “loosen up” and take reading lightly when there are always new benchmarks being introduced.

But guess what? Meeting all of those benchmarks won’t mean anything if we don’t make reading fun for kids.

Foster a Love of Reading

I am often asked how to get kids to read more. The answer is to make reading fun. We have to shift the focus from the amount of pages, words, books, or hours, and instead focus on fostering a love of reading. Once kids love reading, tracking the numbers will be easier and more fun, instead of a chore. Think about it in terms of your own reading. If you are reading something you enjoy, you can probably fly through it. But if it’s a textbook on something you don’t care about, each page can take forever!

There are lots of ways that you can make reading fun for kids and raise a bookworm. Reading to your kids is the first and most important step to raising a reader. From the very beginning, reading to kids helps them connect reading and books to positive feelings of love. In addition to this simple but lasting side effect, reading to your kids every day also offers you the opportunity to show them that reading can be fun, and to model the behaviors of good readers.

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Have Fun with It

Don’t take your daily reading too seriously! Every read aloud doesn’t have to be a big life lesson or a lesson in reading skills. Some days my daughter and I read deep and meaningful books that help her learn coping skills or help her to deal with big emotions. Other days we happiily read the silliest books we can find and spend the day laughing at nonsense. Both types of books have a place on our bookshelf and in our daily reading. On those days when I am making silly voices and reading ridiculous books, she is reminded that reading can be a lot of fun, and those will become treasured memories to her. I still have fond memories of my parents reading silly books to me and my sister. And those nights spent reading made me the reader that I am.

Making reading fun can be easy!

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Fighting back when kids want to reread the same story

Rereading the same book night after night can be exhausting for parents. You get tired of the same story and the same rhymes. You can repeat them without looking at the pages. While this may be annoying to you, hearing the same story over and over is actually really beneficial to kids.

Each time they hear the story, they pick up on more of the plot, the tone, the character development, the rhyme patterns, etc. They are able to start filling in some of the words on their own, especially if the text has a good rhyme. They will also be able to retell the story in their own way, which is an important skill to develop. Plus, the comfort of hearing a favorite story over and over again adds an emotional level to your reading time, which helps them tie reading to positive feelings.

So instead of forcing a new book on them every night, give in to the repeated stories. (Although I have been known to send certain books on vacation after a while, to be found again sometime later on).

Not letting kids read graphic novels

There are a lot of people who believe that graphic novels aren’t “real books”. This is also common when discussing comic books. However, I completely disagree with this argument. Are they reading? Are they putting the screens away and reading stories on the page? Then don’t stress!

There are so many milestones and guidelines for kids and reading, that we often worry about what they “should” be reading. But as adults, we don’t exactly read what we “should” be reading all the time either! Sure we could only read the classics, or brilliant texts on philosophy or ethics, but sometimes we want to escape with a romance novel or a thriller too. Reading should be enjoyable. If we force kids to read what they “should” be reading and discount what they want to read, then they will grow to dislike reading as a whole.

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