How do your kids deal with separation? Being apart is something that all families will have to deal with at some point. Some kids stay with a caretaker or daycare teacher while their parents are at work. Other kids may be home with a parent, but someday have to separate when they go off to school. Some children have parents who live in different homes, and have to split their time. All of these situations can be difficult for both the parents and kids to deal with. So I am happy to share some of the best children’s books about separation that have helped my daughter and I to cope when we have to be apart.
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Written by Mackenzie Porter and illustrated by Jenny Lovlie
This sweet board book follows a mother and daughter as they go about their days at work and school. As they start the day together, the mother reminds herself that they are never apart, even if they are not together. The sweet rhyming text and heartwarming illustrations show how the mother thinks about her daughter throughout the day. At the end of the day, she reassures her daughter of the same message from earlier in the book: that they are always in each other’s heads and hearts, keeping them tied together.
Written by Audrey Penn and illustrated by Ruth Harper
In this sweet, sentimental story, a little raccoon named Chester is not ready to go to school. His mother tells him about a family secret called the Kissing Hand, which can help him to ease his fears. This simple action reassures him of her love, no matter where he is. And he offers the same reassurance back to her. The beautiful illustrations bring the heartwarming story to life, making this a classic for parents whose children are heading to school for the first time. My daughter and I frequently use our kissing hands when we have to be apart and it is truly helpful.
Written by Patrice Karst and illustrated by Joanne Lew-Vriethoff
This book was recommended to me by a children’s therapist, and it has been really helpful. In this story, when two young children get scared during a rainstorm, they run to their mother in the living room. They tell her that they are scared and they want to be close to her. She reassures them that they are always connected, even when they are apart. She explains to them that we have invisible strings tying us to those that we love and keeping us connected, even while separated. This visual for remaining connected can not only help kids with being separated from parents during the day, but can also help them when a loved one passes away. This was extremely helpful to our family when my uncle passed away, who my daughter was very close to.
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